Communication Tips

As early as possible communicate about age-appropriate concerns like acne, body
image, etc. That will show teens that you care about what concerns them.
Answer with a question when appropriate. This helps you to figure out what’s really
being asked and how far you should go in answering.
Use teachable moments. It’s ok not being face to face, e.g. sitting parallel during travel
time to talk.
Try not to be shocked or get angry (they’ll stop listening before you even get
started).
Tell relevant parts of your own story. Not all details are necessary or wise to share
but be willing to use lessons learned.
Set dating and group activity guidelines. “Don’t know where we’re going,” is not
acceptable. Be visible to their friends and dates, especially you Dad, if you are home
when friends come.
Give increasing amounts of responsibility and accountability according to age
and maturity. Use both praise and correction so they’ll be clear about what they’re
doing well and what needs improvement.
Reserve time for your kids – they deserve it!

Both of these websites contain great information explaining the influence parents have on their teen’s decisions about sex. Check them out!
4parents.gov
parentsfortruth.org